Dishonoured - How I Escaped an Arranged Marriage and Survived an Honour Killing to Become a Star (Paperback)

Sofia Hayat is beautiful, talented, and successful. She has acted in two feature films and appeared in numerous television shows, commercials, and modeling campaigns. She leads a glamorous life which enables her to mingle freely with celebrities and she is often snapped by the paparazzi while out on the party circuit or dining in some of London's finest restaurants. Yet it is what lies behind Sofia's glittering career that makes her life story so compelling and inspirational. Sofia's childhood was worlds away from her current, free-spirited life. Growing up at the heart of a Muslim family, above her parents' corner shop in Kent, she was forced to comply by the strictest of rules--her father forbade her from having friends and, if she was caught talking to boys, she would suffer severe, often violent, consequences at his hands. But the lowest point of her childhood came when she learned she was to be forced into an arranged marriage--the thought of being trapped in an empty, loveless union tipped Sofia into attempting to take her own life and instigated a spate of self-harming. Her chance to break free finally came when she won herself a place at university, where she experienced for the first time the freedoms that most young women in Britain take for granted. Her new life revolved around partying and meeting men, something that had been forbidden by her parents. Her experimentation with sex, however, resulted in death threats from her own family and, in a shocking twist, her own parents kidnapped her and an honor killing loomed as her family believed that her behavior was tarnishing their image. In spite of the efforts of her family to thwart her bid for freedom, thanks to her strength of mind and conviction, Sofia continued to follow her dream of becoming an actress, eventually moving to London to embark on her career. She now enjoys the success she has struggled for so long to be able to achieve and mixes with celebrities such as Colin Farrell, Leonardo DiCaprio, and Will Smith. Sofia's story is a touching and gripping account of a young girl's struggle to flee a life of oppression and imprisonment. Her courage and determination both to pursue her ambition of becoming a performer and to live freely in British society have demonstrated that it is possible to retain pride in your culture while still enjoying a western lifestyle. Yet Sofia never forgets what she went through to achieve her freedom and devotes her spare time to helping young Muslim women who are experiencing similar troubles to those she endured. Her story will be an inspiration to young women everywhere.